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What Happens to Child Custody When a Job Moves You Out of State

Key Takeaways

  • Virginia requires a relocating parent to give the child’s other parent at least 30 days’ notice before the move date.
  • The court may grant the request to move; however, it can also adjust custody.
  • An experienced divorce attorney can help negotiate a new parenting plan if one parent wishes to move out of state.
  • The court looks at several factors when determining a relocation request.

Relocating for a job can be an exciting opportunity, but it often comes with a heavy emotional burden, especially when you have children. The thought of moving out of state while navigating child custody arrangements can feel daunting and overwhelming.

Unfortunately, the situation can quickly escalate, leading to bitter disputes that could threaten your custody rights and complicate our ability to maintain a meaningful relationship with your child. The stress of potential court battles, the fear of losing precious time with your little one, and the uncertainty of how a move will affect their emotional well-being can weigh heavily on any parent’s heart.

At Randall, McClenney, Daniels & Dunn, PC, our dedicated child custody lawyers are here to guide you through the complexities of custody matters, especially when facing the challenges of moving out of state after a divorce with a child. We understand that this is not just a legal issue; it is a deeply emotional journey that affects your relationship with your child. Our experienced attorneys will work closely with you to develop a tailored strategy that prioritizes your child’s best interests while safeguarding your parental rights.

Can a Parent Move Out of State with a Child After a Divorce?

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A parent can relocate out of state with his or her child after a divorce, provided that such a move does not violate any existing custody orders or disrupt the agreed-upon parenting time. Additionally, the parent must notify the other parent by providing written notice of the intended move.

If no custody order exists, moving out of state is legally possible but comes with risks and complications. In the scenario where a custodial parent moves out of state with his or her child without the non-custodial parent’s consent, the non-custodial parent can take the matter to court. We advise you to discuss your situation with a family law attorney before making such a move.

Legal Steps You Need to Take to Move Out of State with Your Child for a Job After a Divorce

In Virginia, a parent who intends to relocate with a child must provide written notification to the court and the other parent at least 30 days prior to the planned move. This requirement applies even if the parent has sole custody. The relocating parent must obtain court approval before moving out of state with the child. Steps a parent should take to obtain court approval include:

  • Review your existing custody arrangements for any restrictions or requirements regarding relocation.
  • Provide written notice to the other parent and the court at least 30 days prior to the intended move. The notice should include the intended move date and your new address.
  • Obtain consent from the other parent, if possible. If you cannot agree, you can attend mediation to attempt to work out a new custody agreement.
  • Prepare for possible objections.
  • Consult a family law attorney.
  • File for court approval. You will need to prove how the move is beneficial for the child.
  • Attend the court hearing, after which you will receive a court order granting or denying your request.

What Factors Do Courts Consider When a Parent Wants to Move Out of State with a Child After Divorce?

A parent with sole physical custody is more likely to be able to move out of state with the child. However, the court makes decisions based on the best interests of the child. Knowing whether a parent has sole or joint custody is a starting point. Thus, the factors that courts consider include:

  • Whether the relocating parent has sole or joint physical custody of the child
  • Whether the physical custody order is a “permanent” order
  • The distance of the move
  • The current custody arrangements
  • The co-parenting relationship
  • The child’s age

Consequences of Failing to Notify the Court

If the custodial parent chooses to relocate without the court’s permission and without informing the other parent, he or she could suffer legal repercussions for that decision, including:

  • Fines
  • Possible jail time
  • A modification of the custody arrangement that could favor the non-custodial parent

How Does Moving Out of State Affect Child Custody Arrangements?

If the court approves the relocation request, it will adjust the custody arrangements to prioritize the child’s best interests. This may involve changing the visitation schedule from less frequent visits to longer visits. It is important to keep in mind that each case is unique, and the court will base its decision on the specific circumstances involved.

How Can a Family Law Attorney Help Your Relocation Case?

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Moving out of state with a child after divorce can be a complex legal procedure. An experienced family law attorney can help negotiate with your ex-spouse for a new parenting plan in your custody case, which will result in a new child custody order from the court.

Why Clients Choose Randall, McClenney, Daniels & Dunn

When you have minor children and want to move out of state, an experienced family law attorney can help you negotiate a new parenting plan that is in the best interests of your child.

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Embrace a Fresh Start with Your Child in a New State

Whether you are going through a divorce, have paternity issues, child support issues, need help with a domestic violence case, or have another family law matter, such as relocating out of state with a minor child, Randall, McClenney, Daniels & Dunn, PC can guide you through the process and provide legal advice. Contact an experienced family lawyer at Randall, McClenney, Daniels & Dunn, PC, by calling 757-742-6115 or completing our online contact form.

Frequently Asked Questions

Can I Take My Child Out of State if There is No Custody Order?

If you do not have a custody order in place, you can generally take your child out of state without legal restrictions. However, this situation can lead to significant complications if the other parent objects to the move. While both parents typically have equal rights regarding their child, moving without the other parent’s consent can result in legal challenges. The non-relocating parent may petition the court to prevent the move, potentially leading to temporary custody orders or, in extreme cases, accusations of parental kidnapping.

Additionally, if the relocating parent does not seek permission and the other parent files for custody within six months, the court may establish jurisdiction in the original state, which could require the child to return.

Is There Any Hope of Relocating the Child if the Non-Custodial Parent Opposes the Move?

If the non-custodial parent opposes a move, there is still hope for the custodial parent to relocate with the child, but it typically requires legal intervention. In such cases, the custodial parent must demonstrate to the court that the relocation is in the child’s best interests. The court will evaluate various factors, including the reason for the move, the potential impact on the child’s relationship with both parents, and any changes to visitation arrangements.

If the custodial parent has sole physical custody, he or she may have a stronger case for relocation, while those with joint custody may face more scrutiny. Ultimately, if the court finds that the relocation benefits the child, it may grant permission despite the opposition from the non-custodial parent.

What Happens to Child Support When the Custodial Parent Moves Out of State?

When a Virginia custodial parent moves out of state, the child support obligations remain unchanged and enforceable. The Uniform Interstate Family Support Act (UIFSA) allows for the continuation of child support payments across state lines, meaning the non-custodial parent must continue to pay support regardless of the custodial parent’s new location.

However, if the relocating parent’s income is significantly higher, the other parent can petition the court for a modification of child support payments.

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Written By Jack T. Randall

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As lifelong resident of Western Tidewater, Jack Randall is a local attorney who wants the best results for his clients. He is an experienced and aggressive attorney with focus on family law, criminal and traffic law, as well as personal injury law cases.