Who Gets the House After a Divorce?

- Key Takeaways
- Understanding the Difference Between Community Property Vs. Equitable Distribution
- How is Marital Property Divided in Virginia?
- What Factors Does the Court Take into Consideration in an Equitable Distribution Case in Virginia?
- What is Considered Marital Property in Virginia?
- Who Keeps the House After a Virginia Divorce?
- Why Clients Randall, McClenney, Daniels & Dunn, PC
- Are You Worried You Will Lose the House as a Marital Asset?
- Frequently Asked Questions

- Key Takeaways
- Understanding the Difference Between Community Property Vs. Equitable Distribution
- How is Marital Property Divided in Virginia?
- What Factors Does the Court Take into Consideration in an Equitable Distribution Case in Virginia?
- What is Considered Marital Property in Virginia?
- Who Keeps the House After a Virginia Divorce?
- Why Clients Randall, McClenney, Daniels & Dunn, PC
- Are You Worried You Will Lose the House as a Marital Asset?
- Frequently Asked Questions
Key Takeaways
- Virginia law allows for homes to be a part of the equitable division of assets during a marriage.
- That means factors like the duration of the marriage, fault, and each person’s ability to afford the home are considered when deciding who will maintain it.
- In some situations, factors like alimony and child custody play a role in this decision.
- Our divorce attorneys at Randall, McClenney, Daniels & Dunn, PC can help you understand your rights and obtain a fair share of your marital property.
Going through a divorce is a frustrating time in your life and can bring up a lot of anxiety and stress. You are unsure of what property you will keep and what your life will look like after the divorce is finalized.
Both parties want to keep as much property as possible, especially the house. Houses are one of the most contested parts of property division, especially since it means that whoever loses the house has to move out.
Randall, McClenney, Daniels & Dunn, PC can help clients who are looking to get a divorce and want to keep their house. We can help you and your ex-spouse come to an agreement on what you should do with the house and other property divisions.
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Understanding the Difference Between Community Property Vs. Equitable Distribution
In Virginia, the division of marital property follows the principle of equitable distribution. However, that does not mean an equal or 50/50 split. In some states, often referred to as community property states, all assets are divided 50/50 based on their current value.
Equitable distribution, an alternative, focuses on a fair split of assets based on various factors.
How is Marital Property Divided in Virginia?

Virginia follows the equitable distribution rule, which divides property according to what is fair, not necessarily what is equal. Equitable distribution aims to divide property based on the individual circumstances of both parties. It takes a big-picture view of what each person deserves and needs to move forward in a fair manner.
What Factors Does the Court Take into Consideration in an Equitable Distribution Case in Virginia?
In Virginia, when determining equitable distribution during a divorce, the court evaluates several key factors to achieve a fair division of marital property. Some of these factors may include:
- The age of each spouse
- The income and earning ability of each spouse
- The mental condition and well-being of each spouse
- The length of the marriage
- Debts and liabilities within the marriage and who they are assigned to
- The financial contributions made by each spouse to the marriage
- The spouse’s contributions to the marriage, beyond just financial support, including non-monetary contributions
- Whether the property is liquid, meaning easily divided, or not, such as investments like pensions
- Factors related to the dissolution of the marriage
- The tax consequences associated with the division of the property
What is Considered Marital Property in Virginia?
The division of property also depends on who owns it. If you brought assets into the marriage and your spouse did not contribute to them, they may be considered separate property, especially if they are in your name.
Marital property is any asset acquired during the marriage or any property that includes both spouses’ names. Note that a prenuptial or postnuptial agreement could influence how property is divided during a divorce based on the terms both agreed to prior to signing that contract.
Who Keeps the House After a Virginia Divorce?
When considering how personal property is divided in a Virginia divorce, it is important to think about what happens to your home. Every divorce case is determined based on what is considered equitable. Various factors may contribute to this, including:
- The individual’s needs and desires for the home
- Whether there are child custody agreements in place, who will maintain custody, and whether child support is considered
- Each spouse’s income and ability to afford the continued care of the home
- Other factors in the divorce proceedings, such as exchanging the value of the marital home for other assets
- Whether the spouses can come to an agreement about marital funds and marital debts
In the ideal situation, you and your spouse agree, often with the help of our divorce lawyer, to determine the best possible way to divide assets, including real estate. You may want one component of your marital estate, while your spouse may want the other.
If both parties wish to keep the home and cannot come to an agreement, a Virginia court will intervene. In some cases, this may result in the court ordering the sale of the marital home, with the proceeds being divided equitably after any outstanding mortgages are settled.
Should I Move Out Before the Divorce is Finalized?

There are some situations in which moving out of the home, such as taking your personal effects from the home, could indicate to the court that you do not want the home. It can result in your loss of the home. In some courts, removing yourself from the house means removing yourself from the ability to keep that house.
The division of assets in this situation still considers your right to the value of the home. Therefore, before you make the decision to move out of the house, make sure you seek legal advice from a family law attorney about your rights to the home if you leave. Your safety is important, so don’t stay in a situation that could be dangerous for you.
Why Clients Randall, McClenney, Daniels & Dunn, PC
As an equitable distribution state, divorce in Virginia can be confusing and overwhelming. Do not go through the divorce process on your own. Instead, allow our highly skilled divorce attorneys to guide you. Once you establish a client relationship with our law firm, we fight hard for you to have the resources necessary to rebuild your life after your divorce, based on the well-being of the family.
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Are You Worried You Will Lose the House as a Marital Asset?
If you are facing divorce and want to keep your home or just want to navigate divorce laws with confidence, contact Randall, McClenney, Daniels & Dunn, PC for a consultation. Call 757-742-6115 or fill out our contact form online.
Frequently Asked Questions
According to Virginia family law, bank accounts considered marital property will still be divided during the divorce process. However, if you acquired the funds prior to the marriage and they were never commingled with the marriage’s assets, you may be able to argue that they are not marital property.
During the divorce process, the parent who spends the most time with the kids or provides primary care with child custody typically remains in the marital home. If the home is a separate property and there are no children, the owner can ask the other party to leave.
Neither party has the right to throw the other out in situations where both own the home as marital property. If you prevent the other party from entering the home, it may result in legal consequences.
It is advisable to include the division of houses and other properties in a prenuptial agreement. If you owned a house before getting married, you would likely want to specify that house in the prenuptial agreement to ensure that you retain ownership after a divorce.
Marital debts must be settled during the divorce process. If you do not maintain the home, the other spouse must refinance the current mortgage in their own name, removing yours.
Numerous factors influence this decision, though. For example, if the other spouse does not have the financial means to qualify for refinancing, they may be unable to do so. The division of marital property should consider all of these factors before a decision is made.
At the same time, no matter your personal efforts, if you remain on the mortgage and your spouse misses payments, that could hurt your credit score. Whenever possible, work with your attorney, creditor, and others to remove yourself from the mortgage.
It is always a good idea for both spouses to mutually agree on various terms of the divorce, including the distribution of marital debts and assets, such as the family home. This makes the divorce process faster and more straightforward.
The final arrangement will still need to be signed off on, and it is recommended that you have your attorney help you with these negotiations to confirm that you are not giving up things you shouldn’t.
There is no guarantee that losing custody will result in losing the house. However, it is common for the parent who maintains custody to remain in the home when it is in the child’s best interests. Factors such as child support and spousal support can also affect whether one person can remain in the home based on their financial ability to afford it.
The following states are community property states, meaning they follow a 50/50 split:
- Arizona
- California
- Idaho
- Louisiana
- Nevada
- New Mexico
- Texas
- Washington
- Wisconsin
Virginia is not a community property state.

Written By Jack T. Randall
As lifelong resident of Western Tidewater, Jack Randall is a local attorney who wants the best results for his clients. He is an experienced and aggressive attorney with focus on family law, criminal and traffic law, as well as personal injury law cases.